I got a chance to watch Conan’s last taping of The Tonight Show over the weekend. And, while it was funny, the best part were his words at the end. He challenged people to avoid cynicism, as it is ineffective and pointless. He capped it off with this:
Nobody in life gets exactly what they thought they were going to get. But if you work really hard and you’re kind, amazing things will happen.
The hardest obstacle to overcoming cynicism lies in tackling your own heart. That dark place where you hide your fears, your warts, your anger. To excise those negative, life-sucking areas is humbling, hard work. But the rewards are amazing. It’s not about changing people, but about changing how you see people.
Right now it is 5 degrees here in MI with the windchill factor. And I lost my job of 11 years last Friday afternoon. The only job I’ve ever had. The urge to give in to cynicism and anger is almost irresistible.
But the sun is shining, and it’s so cheerful. And I have amazing friends who have reached out to me with a word of kindness or encouragement. And I know that God is with me through this as well.
And, I’m Happy.
Really Happy. In spite of it all. I know there’s a tough road ahead of me in the MI economy. But I’m okay. I’m healthy. I’m loved, and I get to love people back. And there is coffee and chocolate in the world, so life is good.
I feel a new bond with Conan as we both lost our jobs on the same day. I mean, really, we’re practically kindred spirits now. Blood-siblings (except with out the gross blood part – unless you count the blood-sucking “Man” that did us both in!) So, call me Coco! We’ll chat and compare networking strategies and next steps. 🙂
Here’s to surviving 2009.
Here’s to Thriving in 2010.
In the coming year may you enjoy laughter with good friends, times of quiet rest, moments of sublime joy and a few exciting adventures.
Last Friday, I took possession of my new house at closing! Not one to waste time, I rolled up to the closing with a packed car. The closing was only a mile away from my place.
I then took another load over from my parents house (less than 3 miles away). Next I went home and grabbed some more stuff as well as my cat.
I spent last Friday camping out at my new place in my sleeping bag. I just couldn’t wait to be here!!!
The rest of my stuff came over in a U-Haul and some friends’ cars on Saturday.
Since then, it’s been a whirlwind of boxes, cleaning, and figuring out just how I fit into this new space.
More pics and updates to follow!
Because my life is a chaotic whirlwind of packing, and preparing to make the biggest purchase of my life in Just. Two. Days. And because I have been horrible at posting on this site.
I’m going to take an easy-cheesy meme from my facebook friend and use it as my post today. Because, today, 2 is the magic number!
Two names you are called that are not your real name:
Two things you’re wearing now:
1. green sweater
2. fun, stripey socks
What are 2 of your favorite things to do?
2. watch movies
Two things you want very badly at the moment:
1. To be in my new house already!
2. a relationship
Two things you did yesterday:
2. packed some more
Two things you ate yesterday:
2. Hersheys Kisses
(Note they are both plural. But I’m okay with that because it was Fat Tuesday and I gave up chocolate for lent)
Two people you last talked to:
2. John from U-Haul.
Two things you are doing tomorrow:
1. Small Group!
2. more packing? :c
Two favorite holidays:
2. New Year’s
Two favorite drinks:
1. Diet Cherry Vanilla Dr Pepper
2. Bell’s Oberon with an orange slice. mmmm
Two people no longer alive that you’d like to talk to:
1. Nana Alice
2. Nana Marie
So…. one of the things I’ve been busy with lately, is my new favorite pastime: House Hunting.
I’ve fully allowed myself to indulge in my voyeurism over the past two months. It’s so interesting to see how other people live, how they decorate and what their style is. It’s also fascinating to see just how some people abuse perfectly good homes.
Given the Michigan economy – many of the houses I looked at were foreclosures. God bless my realtor – she suffered through some horrible viewings with me. One of the places smelled so bad that I didn’t make it past the front hallway. Most were colder on the inside than it was outside. Brrr! I am truly grateful for Linda’s patience, advice and all of the time she spent looking through listings for ones that I might like.
And her hard work paid off. She found one last week that she suggested to me. I was on the fence about looking at it – but decided to give it a try at the end of our day together. I stepped in the front door at 6pm on Saturday night – and spent close to an hour there. Went back on Sunday to the Open House to talk to the listing agent, see the house better in daylight and to check out my “competition”. Monday afternoon I put the bid in. Tuesday afternoon the terms were agreed to by myself and the seller.
And in 22 days I get the keys to this place:
My new home!
I’ve been taking a bit of a sabbatical from this site the last two months. Life has been chaotic and dramatic and I had to devote all my energy to just staying afloat…
But i hope to get back on here regularly soon – I have some drafts in the works and am looking forward to reconnecting with my blogging community!
It just seems silly that there’s only one day each year where we focus on all that we have to be thankful for. When, really, with all that we have
Some of the things that I am thankful for:
My awesome dad and mom. At the beach this summer with my church
My parents. (there’s a story behind this photo – I’ll share it soon!)
My sister – she’s the coolest chick I know. She lives far away now and I miss her something terrible! She also has a great fiance, but he’s camera-shy….
My cat, Puppy. He’s a snuggler. 🙂
She also takes great self portraits!
Most of all, my niece. Who is the best thing that ever happened to our family. Besides me. 😉
Of course, rounding out the list are: friends, my job, my health. Each day is a gift – and I am learning to embrace gratitude daily.
I hope that you had a wonderful holiday, and continue to keep an attitude of thankfulness beyond today.